So, I Did It, On to the Next Adventure

I know I'm not between a rock and a hard place, I've opened up a new adventure in my life.

On July 26 of this great year I called the social security office. I was for years hesitant to do so,  it felt like I was playing the "age card" but better sense prevailed. When I got everything squared away and knew that each month money would be coming in, it dawned on me that it was optional that I continue with my counseling practice. Remember I opened for business in our small town in December of 1986. I realize that some of you reading this hadn't been born yet. Also remember that I willingly and enthusiastically have been working at one job or another since I was fourteen years old. I think that's enough time to put in.

Make no mistake, I loved and cherished all of my clients, still do. I often, behind their backs, bragged to anyone who inquired about my clientele "I see fabulous people" and this was absolutely true.  Nonetheless I wanted new adventures and a much need break fretting about other people's dilemmas and problems.

I have had some wonderful and some funny reactions to spreading the news that I am now officially retired. One of my favorite clients said, "I don't think you are allowed to do that," and then she laughed, we both did. I'm still getting calls and e mails and messages on my Facebook page and hence this formal post that I will happily refer you to other good therapists.

Let me just add that I am filled with gratitude for the counseling practice that I created. First of all I've been blessed to work at my hearts desire-- and I might add, one of the most satisfying jobs in the world. Counseling is a humbling, rewarding, inspiring, fulfilling, fascinating and difficult profession and I relished my time doing it.  Secondly, I so loved [and still do] all of the great people who came to my practice. It has been a deep privilege to work with all of you.

My sister Sally says this blog has been my "senior project" and interestingly, if I dare to think of myself- not as a high school student- but as a senior citizen, indeed it is. This blog wasn't even possible several years ago when I was working full time.  I was devoting hours to reading everything I could get my hands on and going to workshops to advance my knowledge of whatever the clients were bringing to me. It took working in a partially retired mode for me to open up this window for writing and I really enjoy it. The hours fly by and it's a rich and a rewarding experience. I intend to keep giving away all of my best thoughts, ideas, therapy tips and stories to anyone who wants them. Such a deal!

 I'm here in our small town and feeling fine. By the way, today is the one year anniversary of my hip surgery and the liberation and gratitude that I feel about being able to walk without pain is a bonus and wonderful. I am looking forward to traveling, writing, volunteering and gathering friends and family for extended visits.

My love to all and thank you, thank you.



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