My one regret in life is that I am not someone else. Woody Allen
To err is human but it feels divine. Mae WestThere is this thing about guilt. It's contradictory. It's very necessary, and very unnecessary, very heavy, and very essential to our humanness. The biggest trouble with guilt is it's repetitiveness, it has the capability to be unrelenting and unproductive. This can change! [Doesn't this almost sound like I'm in the advertising business: Get Productive and Guilt Free in only Five Easy Lessons!] I believe when we feel an excessive amount of guilt it can be used effectively and ultimately lessened.
Here are the ten easy steps to lessening the guilt you feel:
- Sit down [or pace the floor] and come up with what you feel most guilty about. Be clever, be witty, be depressed, but by all means be honest.
- Write down what you are guilty about.
- Sit still [or pace again] and let yourself contemplate your missteps, carelessness, inadvertent sins or purposeful egregious acts.
- Stay with these wretched thoughts for at least five minutes.
- As you are thinking write down possible solutions to resolving or absolving the guilt.
- Make an action plan to ease the burden and make amends when necessary.
- Be prepared to do the above each day for a week.
- Put the notebook with the guilt list and solutions away.
- When your brain tells you that you are guilty, acknowledge it and then concentrate on the actions you've come up with to rectify the situation.
- Take the action and actively invite the feelings of release, letting go, as Mae West it can even feel divine.
He has more of a conscious than Mr. Cheney |
Give me the good men and women with a conscience, the ones who are caring and loving and good citizens to boot, they are going to have moments when they feel guilty. My wish is that they put the guilt to good use and change the situation into something meaningful.
I hope that there is karma, or an after life or some other form of justice that will hold the warmongers, the rapists, the abusers accountable. To focus on all of the injustice and not do anything about it, well, it makes me feel guilty. Hence I write these blogs, I write letters in protest, I vote against the selfish and the greedy. I hope that you do too.
The world needs more geniuses with humility, there are so few of us left. Oscar LevantIf I were Queen, I say humbly, I would order all of the actually guilty people to do penance, in public. I would order public works like care taking wounded soldiers, rehabilitation paid for by the abusers, have the monies restored by the bankers who stole from us all and then gave themselves bonuses, etc. See, if you follow logical consequences it could all go so well. The Queen has spoken, long live the Queen.
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